First swinger party? Get ready to feel the rush!

So I was doing some research on the internet about the first swinger (or wife swapping) encounters of swinger pro’s nowadays and what I found was not very surprising: Most of the people who are amateur in the lifestyle feel like their nervous system will blow up in any minute. We have very good news for you, that is just more than normal! Yay!

According to the information I gathered (you can thank me later… or not) the first sympthom of anxiety comes out when the “chatting about it with your partner” moment arrives. Let’s face it, you don’t hear –“hey baby… what about if we catch a swinger party this weekend and see how it works…” everyday, well my friends, that’s the first and maybe the most difficult part.

It might be because there are some trouble in the relationship, or you guys need a new exciting experience to enhace the relationship, or maybe you feel curious and kinky about it, you’ll have to sit down, get a couple of beers and talk about it, and just for one simple reason: both must be agree.

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The most important rule of swinging.

There’s a Golden Rule in the lifestyle, and might be the most important one: no means no! Seriously, don’t push it, for most of the relationships of marriage or open ones, communication and knowing the things that makes the other one feel comfortable is very important. Once you’ve talked about it and both agree, let the fun begin!

Arrive to the party and dress normally (you don’t have to put your catwoman Halloween costume on, unless it’s a theme party, but hold your horses for now), there are no sexual perverts involved in a swinger encounter. Meet the couples, chat with them, stay together and have some wine or your favorite drink for relaxation, you might feel that your heart starts beating really fast with the first interaction, relax, it’s just normal.

Professional swinger couples really know when someone is new in the lifestyle, keep calm, more than judge you they’ll teach and guide you to make it the most pleasant experience ever. When the moment of sexual interaction begins, you have to make the choice of watching your partner doing someone else or not, the communications become between four people from now on, here’s where the adrenaline rush might begin.

Your partner will try to make you feel relaxed and confident in every moment, there is of course a foreplay going on before the whole thing, our best advice is to let go. Say what you like, most women get turned on by oral sex at the beggining, other ones like the kissing and soft talking to get in there, according to my research, it makes them feel estimulated and forget the anxiety faster.

When everything has finished, have another drinks and highlight the most positive feelings that you got from your partner. It’s like a selfsteem booster, believe me. Your husband has an awesome dick and moves it so good, your wife makes a hell of a blowjob, you lucky man! Those are the best compliments that you can get from the pro’s in the lifestyle, you will feel more confident the next time and it will get better and better. Please, do not forget to tell u show was your first swinger party!

Thanks for reading sexies!