What should you know about swinging before you try to swing with your partner? Here are the ten most important rules that every swinger couple should know and follow to make sure you have a good time while swapping partners.

Like any other human activity, swinging also has its pros and cons. A few basic laid down principles can make swinging fun and foul-free, every time.

One goes, both go

Come as a couple and leave as one. It is not preferable if one goes while the other lags behind. Always go hand in hand without leaving your partner behind. Swinging is safer and easier if both partners are comfortable indulging in it. It is a team game. Not a solo affair.

Punctuality

Arriving at the correct time applies here as well. Turning up late at a party is a turn-off. By the time you’re in, the night would be in full swing. You’d only end up making people who are already in the act feel awkward. You won’t know where to fit in too. Inform the host beforehand if you are going to be late. Or you may not be invited again.

Courtesy

The lifestyle of the swingers isn’t a piece of cake. Sometimes it is complex and complicated with lots of insecurities and uncertainties. Courtesy is the key to ease up. Behave with people just like you would like them to behave towards you. Be sensible, thoughtful and understanding.

RSVP to Invitations

Even if you don’t wish to attend, answer to all invitations. It is very annoying for a host if they don’t know how many people are going to turn up. Reply by phone or mail and express your gratitude for the invitation.

Gift for the Host

Don’t go to a party empty-handed. Ask the host about what you could get for them. Get something racy or simple for the hosts every time you attend a swingers’ party. See, it’s just like a normal party, isn’t it?

The Right Attire

Wear clothes that are practical and will be comfortable for you as the night progresses. Carrying a robe or a negligee is a good idea. Take only as much cash as you require. Keep your bling, jewelry and other valuables to the bare minimum. Losing them will be headache to you and an embarrassment to the hosts.

Health and Hygiene

Oral hygiene is a basic necessity for everyone. Bad breath or body odor is a big turn-off for your potential partners. Shower and groom well before you leave for the party. Good cologne, perfumes or body sprays will give you the edge in the environment. The best way to enjoy the party is by freshening up as you reach there.

Enjoy Yourself

The whole idea is to have fun and enjoy your time there, so participate in activities that make you feel comfortable. Don’t let anyone pressurize you to do something you don’t like. This may be the most important one. Approach every activity with an open mind and positive attitude. Act out your fantasies, and enjoy yourself.

The Right to say ‘NO’

This is the fundamental etiquette in swinging, the right to say ‘no’. It is simple and straightforward, and polite to say ‘no, thank you’. Explanations and alibis aren’t required as these may cause embarrassment and hurt you. You shouldn’t be afraid to decline an invitation. It is the only way to avoid doing something you might regret afterwards. And that might just create more ill-feelings and embarrassment.

Friendliness

Be a friend to all, even if you don’t want to extend the night or don’t have any interest in getting physical with someone. You may catch a vibe by being nice with the others in the community. They may put you across to people who you may be interested in.

Swinging can be every bit as invigorating, exciting and fulfilling as you can ever imagine. It opens a window to explore your favorite fantasies in safe mode. You and your partner can work out in private, and yet you can enjoy another couple or get a group swing in just one evening.

Meeting new interesting people and making bold friends are potential side-effects of swinging. Swinging also has the common positive effect of enhancing your relationship and personal life to a great extent. The positive feeling about yourself, your mate, and your relationship is the most important factor while swinging.

My First Threesome (NSFW)

Everything in my story is true, actual words spoken may drift from the truth, but facts are as near as memory allows.

I will start my story when I was younger, I use to hang out with two brothers, one older by a year, the other younger by about nine months, I was very aware of them looking up my skirt so whenever possible I would always go upstairs or up an attic ladder first and I would suddenly turn and look down at them and smile then they would look away. I would go to the shops and buy knickers as sexy as I could, knowing that I would then keep the boys looking and that was the beginning of my exhibitionist life.

Later, two guys lived opposite me, their house was a little higher than ours, and I used to leave the light on in my bedroom after a bath or shower. I could just about make them out as they watched me, I got a big kick out of it.

My first time was with a man old enough to be my father, I would go shopping for him and he took my virginity in the bath, he had said that he could teach me all there was to sex and how to keep a guys my own age wanting me all the time. He was very gentle and I loved him but he had to relocate for his job and it was short lived.

Shortly after that I found Tom; we met at a wedding and of course we danced and talked a lot. Tom was a very good conversationalist; the best I have ever known. We dated two more times and then Tom told me he was a voyeur, (I didn't know what that was) so he told me that he had always been one to get a kick out of looking up girls skirts etc. however, he claimed that he wasn't a peeping Tom and he certainly wouldn't creep around and look in windows for example.

He told me this so I could make up my mind before things maybe got too serious between us. I was a little taken back by his honesty but said I could live with that so we carried on dating and soon we made love. Tom was fantastic and I fell in love with him and soon we were married. Our sex life was smashing and I gave birth to two girls, we decided that two was enough so Tom went and had a vasectomy.

Moving on to what we call our most sexually fun year, we were making love when Tom said how he wished he had two pairs of hands to caress me with and I must admit the thought of it did turn me on. My mind did drift that way the more I thought about it and this happened a few times but we never mentioned it outside the bedroom.

I suppose a couple of months went by before the subject was talked about; it was one evening after the girls had gone to bed. I asked Tom why he brings the subject up and he replied that it turns him on a little bit more and I told him that it got more worked up just thinking about it.

We were very lucky in the fact that my parents lived on a farm and the girls loved to go there every other weekend and Tom's family also lived out in the country, so the babysitting the following weekend was no problem. We talked openly about it for a few days and discussed getting another man to join us in bed and have some real sexual fun.

The next day, Tom was at our favorite club when he spotted an old work mate of his named Ron (I also knew him a little as he used to date my friend back some years ago). Tom invited Ron to join us and we had a lovely evening dancing and joking so we arranged to meet the next night.

When Tom and I got home he asked me what I thought of Ron and I said I thought him quite nice and a bit dishy. Tom then asked me if I fancied him and of course I did and told him so. I must add that night our love making was so intense I don't know how many times I climaxed but it was superb.

The next morning we talked about how Ron would fit into our sex life and of course we both wanted to and so did he once we brought it up. We carried on talking about this all week and our love making intensified so that we said we would try and get our sexual fun started.

Saturday evening came and I pondered over what to wear. I asked Tom and he suggested my cream skirt with the split down the right thigh, that way he said, Ron will see your stocking top. I must say I was very nervous as we walked into the club and Ron was already there. When we reached his table he asked us what we wanted to drink and we sat down. I sat next to Ron and I would catch him looking at my stocking top and bare thigh and I would give him a little smile if his glance caught my eye.

A few drinks later I was up and dancing first with Tom and of course Ron. When dancing with Ron I would move in tighter and I could feel him getting semi hard. I teased Ron a little more as the night wore on and it soon became time to go home. When we got to our house, Tom got the drinks while Ron and I selected some music to play, I asked Tom if it was alright if Ron and I danced, he of course said it's alright and gave us a wink. Ron said "I love the perfume of your hair," and I asked if that was the only thing he liked. "I like everything about you," he whispered. I danced closer to Ron now than I did at the club and he got a full blown erection. Other than that and a little chat about Ron saying he fancied me which I replied "I know I can feel it," Ron left to go home and promised to return the next night and later Tom and I made love with vigor.

The next morning we decided to set some ground rules if we were going to take things to the next level. We decided that Ron would have to wear a condom, that I would not do any oral on him or anal sex and that at any time either of us could stop it. We also agree that Ron and I would never have sex without Tom present and the same rules would apply if we decided to invite a woman into our bedroom at some point. Then we made some hand signals and safety words so that we could communicate in the heat of the moment.

When Ron returned, I was on pins and needles waiting for him. Ron seemed a bit more nervous than before as he had reviewed the rules with Tom on the phone earlier and was clear that this was indeed happening. We turned on some music and began with a few drinks. Ron put his hand on my back and led me to dance and as we did he made little circles on the small of my back and then finally began roving up my blouse and to my bra strap.

Ron then began to kiss me, his lips were warm and as I felt his hot tongue penetrate my mouth I felt my pussy become enflamed with heat and wetness. His cock pressed into my abdomen and I could feel the throbbing of his very hard cock now pressing against me harder and harder until he was grinding against me and fucking me with his mouth. It was amazing and I enjoyed it immensely.

I would occasionally glance over to see if Tom was okay with everything but he was more than okay and I could see his hard cock pressing against his own pants. I have never felt more aroused knowing that two men wanted me in that moment and I felt my wet pussy drip cum past my lace panties and down my thighs.

Tom walked over to me and put his hand on my nipple and squeezed them showing Ron and telling him how much I loved it. Ron slid his hand down over one and began to squeeze as Tom continued to press against the other and sandwiched between them I found myself breathing with intense arousal. Tom opened my blouse and pulled my bra down showing of my erect nipples as they continued to play with them. Ron then slid his hand down and moaned slightly as he felt how wet I was through my panties.

When Tom saw how wet I was when Ron brought back his hand to show him the glistening cum on his fingers, he led us back to the bedroom where he had me lay down opening my thighs and pulling my panties off to show Ron my dripping wet, pink pussy. I loved that they were both longing for it and then Tom sat on the bed and began rubbing it and motioned for Ron to come over and join in. Ron began to finger me as Tom rubbed my clit just the way I like it.

I came right away, but it was only the beginning. Ron then slid down his pants exposing his hard cock that bounced with enthusiasm as he released it. "Fuck her well", Tom said and the moved up to my breasts where he squeezed and teased me.

I began to suck Tom's cock as he straddled me from the side and Ron loved watching me do it as did Tom. When Ron slid slowly into me I could tell he was about the same size as Tom, but felt his penis was a little straighter and less curved than Tom's. While it did not hit my gspot as well, he fucked me with intense thrusts as I screamed and begged for more wrapping my thighs tightly around him. I must have cum 3 or 4 times and I was so dizzy from it I was almost out of my own body at one point.

After about ten minutes Tom came hard into my mouth and his hot jizz shot into the back of my throat and shortly thereafter, Ron came hard and feeling him release into the condom inside me was so fulfilling. We all lay there enjoying the moment for several moments and then agreed to do it again. Over the years Ron has been a regular of ours and we even have brought in a couple women. We have an ease though with Ron and it is always fun having him visit from time to time.

Source: True Erotic Story

¿Le darías a tu hombre el beso de Singapur?

El beso de Singapur es un truco usado para provocar grandes orgasmos, también es conocido como pompoir o kabazza, según el nombre que la da la comunidad árabe.

Se trata de olvidarse de los tradicionales saltos que da ella cuando está encima de él mientras su compañero permanece recostado boca arriba. En lugar de los saltos, ella y él permanecen quietos, pero ella utiliza su músculo pubocoxígeo para estimular la erección masculina.

Ella estimula el pene de su compañero una vez que el pene esté dentro de la vagina, la vagina usará movimiento similares a la succión, consintiendo de esta manera a su pareja. Pompoir se traduce del francés como "chupadora", regalando al pene una sensación muy parecida a la del sexo oral.

Esta sensación es única y al practicarla, tanto él como ella son atrapados en un nivel más alto de placer sexual, muchas parejas que lo practican han logrado perfeccionar la técnica y disfrutan de relaciones más intensas, con finales gratificantes.

Sin embargo lograr dominar la técnica no es tan fácil, para algunas mujeres requiere de un poco de práctica y entrenamiento, pero si se tiene paciencia y se entrena con la pareja pronto podrán disfrutar de los mejores orgasmos.

Ella tiene que entrenar su músculo pubocoxígeo, pues este músculo estimulará al pene en esta técnica. Para algunas mujeres es fácil hacer este movimiento, incluso les sale de forma natural.

¿Cómo hacer el beso de Singapur?

¿Te será fácil aplicarle esta técnica a tu hombre? Para averiguarlo tendrás que practicarlo, colóca a tu hombre acostado boca arriba, abre las piernas y siéntate sobre él, introduce su pene en tu vagina. Deja que él permanezca inmóvil, tú serás la protagonista, la heroína de la historia.

Deja que tus caderas permanezcan quietas, estimula a tu "macho alfa" acariciándolo con las manos y con coquetas miradas, mientras lo haces pon en acción el músculo pubocoxígeo, cuyas contracciones los llevarán al orgasmo. Realiza contracciones continuas e intensas.

¿Dónde está ese músculo y cómo controlarlo?

Puedes descubrir este musculo cuando vayas a orinar, corta la expulsión de la orina a la mitad del camino, retén por un segundo y luego vuelve a orinar. El músculo que permite hacer eso es el pubocoxígeo, si puedes hacerlo seguramente dominarás la técnica de la succión con tu vagina.

Para entrenar y tonificar los músculos de tu vagina puedes utilizar el método de Kegel, te ayudarán a mejorar tu salud sexual y mejorarán esta técnica sexual. Evita hacer los ejercicios mal, pues podría ser riesgoso para tu salud. Consulta a tu ginecólogo para cualquier consulta.

Si el beso de Singapur te parece muy complicado, utilice otras técnicas para explorar el placer sexual en pareja, no olvides que la comunicación es muy importante para una vida sexual sana.

What do people think about the lifestyle?

On the late weeks I started a discussion topic on a fórum about what do people think about the lifestyle, if they think it is a taboo, would they try it, if they were in an open relationship and what did they hear about the lifestyle and the couples involved in. Sadly, we are not prepared as a society to tell our secret to everyone, because it’s still a taboo, there’s people that supports this ideology, but there’s even more people that are against, because many factors doesn’t let them understand why we love swinging: religión, closed minds and pro monogamy are the principal factors that doesn’t allow society to comprehend what is really behind this sexy style of living. Here are some of them:

1.- “There is nothing better than a faithful, loving, respectful relationship between 2 people. Swinging is sleazy and inmoral…”

Ok. First of all, who told this guy that monogamic-faithful-loving-respecful relationships can not be selazy and inmoral? At least, or as a big (sorry, huge) advantage, couples in the lifestyle are way more honest that “morally normal relationships”. How many unfaithful couples exist nowadays and do hide from their partners? Man, better tell the truth!

2.- “ ...and hey, don't let the threat of sexually transmitted diseases stop you. It's all in the gamble...right? You could very easily leave with something you didn't bring to the party.” 

Whats the deal with the STDs and the lifestyle? It’s very frustrating to see how people think that swingers don’t use the right measures to prevént a STD, it is the same risk that a husband going to a hooker takes and then bringing the bad stuff to his wife’s bedroom…sorry but not sorry!

3.- “For starters there is the complete lack of real intimacy. Everyone is reduced to the sexual parts, and the intimacy of a real relationship is lost.”

All I can say about this is that he has a point here: There might be no intimacy in a swinger encounter, and that is what swinger couples are exactly looking for, an encounter where sexyness and excitement gets involved with no intimacy.

4.- “There is a wonderful attraction in being with someone that only has eyes for you, that knows every part of you…”

That was so romantic, and I respect this girl’s comment, but, being realistic, don’t you really look at another guy and have some fantasies about them? We are human beings, you can not lie to nature and hide your desires, trust me, your man DOES watch another women and DOES has fantasies about them everyday! Lifestylers are open and free to tell their partner “honey, I think that girl over there is HOT”.

5.- “Once you have opened Pandora's box and lost all respect for your partner and self, you can then close the box, end the relationship, and settle down with someone who hasn't sleep with your family, friends, colleagues, and every other swinger on Craigslist.”

Let’s close this entry with these masterpiece, another thing that really bothers me: Why do people think that swingers are sick nymphomaniacs? Yes, swinger couples enjoy sex a lot more than “normal ones”, yes, swinger couples have a bigger sexuality than the average couples, but that doesn’t mean that they’re looking to hook up with everyone or everything that moves, in fact, most of the couples are very selective and it has to involve an excellent chemistry before getting a full swap.

After reading all this comments and taking the discussion to a Word fight in the fórum, I think most of the people are not much agree with the lifestyle, but it made me happy the fact that much more couples came out and gave some great opinnions about swingers and open relationships, the most used word from them: respect.

Thanks for reading sexies!

La Delgada Línea Al Lifestyle

El marido de mi prima tenía fama de Don Juan y siempre en la familia se murmuraba que andaba con otras mujeres. Nunca lo pude comprobar. Lo que sí sabía, por boca de mi mujer era de que se comentaba entre ellas que en bailes familiares le gustaba apretar un poco y así como al descuido tocaba la cola de sus ocasionales compañeras e incluso sus pechos. A Josefina se los había tocado, según me confesó, pero no le había dado importancia hasta que las otras mujeres hablaron del tema.

Ahí recordó que en cierta ocasión, mientras bailaban le puso una mano en forma un poco descarada sobre una de sus tetas y cuando ella lo miró sorprendida éste (Sine) le había hecho un guiño con su ojo.

Un día Sine se accidentó y tuvieron que enyesarle ambas piernas por lo que debía permanecer postrado en una camilla especial que le había alquilado mi prima y para pasarla mejor estaban en un lugar que tienen cerca de la casa que es bastante amplio y contaba con un gran living comedor, una cocina y un bellísimo parque atrás, junto con un baño. Tiene un estilo de "loft" y sin separación alguna, salvo con el parque a través de grandes ventanales.

Fui a visitarlo, luego pasaría mi mujer a verlo y retornaríamos juntos para casa. Aprovechando mi llegada mi prima se fue al supermercado porque tenía que hacer la compra mensual y se iba a demorar un par de horas.

Estuve charlando con él un buen rato y me contó que estaba cansado en esa posición y que no tenía sexo y estaba por explotar porque mi prima era incapaz de hacerle un mimo, una caricia para aliviarle las tensiones. Me sorprendió con el comentario pero no le di mucha importancia hasta que dejó entrever que sería capaz de pedirle a mi mujer que le aliviara la situación.

Lo miré sorprendido y riéndose me dijo que era una broma pero que si se lo proponía era muy probable de lograr que cualquier mujer le hiciera unos mimitos, por más que estuviera casada, porque sabía cómo convencerla.

Le dije que con Fina (así la llamamos cariñosamente) eso no pasaría y fue entonces que me apuró y me sugirió jugar una pequeña apuesta. Si lograba algo me la tenía que aguantar y no decirle nada ni a mi mujer ni a él. Si no lo lograba que fuera pensando que le podía ir pidiendo, que podía ser cualquier cosa que se me ocurriera que él lo aceptaría porque confiaba mucho en sus poderes.

Lo pensé un poco y acepté ya que sabía que mi mujer, por más que se llevaba bien con él y simpatizaban mucho sería incapaz de tener algún encuentro sexual de cualquier tipo porque estábamos muy enamorados y me era fiel.

Cuando sentimos el timbre me dijo que fuera al parque y no apareciera por nada del mundo que él iba a tratar de que Fina le hiciera un par de caricias. Dudé pero me fui atrás ya que podía observar todo a través de los ventanales por estar el parque a oscuras y el living comedor iluminado. De adentro no se veía nada para afuera.

A través del portero eléctrico abrió la puerta y cuando entró mi mujer se sorprendió de no verme allí ya que había quedado en esperarla. Le mintió diciéndole que había llamado porque tenía un contratiempo en el trabajo y que no podía llegar, así que no me esperara y que se fuera sola para casa. Fina se lo creyó.

Comenzaron a conversar de cualquier cosa y sonrisa va, sonrisa viene le pidió (yo escuchaba todo a través de las ventanas) que le trajera algo de beber y que ella se sirviera también.

Cuando se acercaba con la copa a la camilla donde se encontraba vestido solamente con un pantalón pijamas corto debido al yeso que cubría sus piernas desde sus tobillos hasta cerca de su ingle le tomó una de sus manos y la puso arriba de su miembro.

Ella se sorprendió y la quiso retirar de inmediato pero no podía hacerlo bruscamente porque en la otra mano tenía la copa y no quería derramarle el líquido encima.

Escuché cuando le preguntó el por qué lo hacía, que no correspondía y Sine todo compungido y actuando como para recibir el Oscar de la Academia le dijo que se sentía muy mal, que disculpara su atrevimiento, que ella no se merecía esto pero que era la única que lo podía ayudar ya que su mujer era medio pacata y no le hacía ningún mimo y él ya llevaba así unos cuantos días y como era muy activo sexualmente se estaba poniendo loco por no poder hacer nada y que todavía le quedaba mucho tiempo por delante en ese estado e iba a reventar.

Que necesitaba su ayuda, que era como una cura que le iba a hacer. Que él la respetaba y eso no saldría de esas cuatro paredes. Que lo ayudara.

Fina se rehusó en forma terminante, lo que me llenó de orgullo, pero ante la insistencia de Sini, no se cómo, se dejó convencer.

Dejó la copa sobre una mesita y procedió a sacarle el miembro fuera del pijamas y a acariciarlo suavemente con ambas manos. Yo no podía creer lo que estaba viendo y además, lo peor, era que me estaba calentando con la situación. Veía a mi mujer con otra pija entre sus manos y comencé a excitarme.

Rápidamente y por los movimientos de Fina el miembro de Sine creció a pasos agigantados y realmente tenía una verga considerable.

Notaba a través de la ventana que ella también estaba sorprendida por el tamaño y la miraba algo extasiada. Sus movimientos iban de abajo arriba y dejaban al descubierto la rojiza cabeza del glande. Sine intentó acariciarla en su espalda pero ésta se rehusó y le dijo que no la tocara, que la dejara actuar.

Siguió con sus movimientos que se hicieron más intensos a medida que pasaban los minutos. Por momentos una de sus manos de deslizaban hacia los testículos y trataba de apretárselos con lo cual parecía que Sine se retorcía en su camilla.

Siguió acelerando sus movimientos y fue entonces que un chorro de leche salió disparado furiosamente hacia arriba. Fina continuó con su tarea sin importarle que el semen se desparramara sobre su mano. Es más y ahí casi me vuelvo loco, de golpe acercó su boca al miembro de Sine y sin mediar palabra se lo introdujo en su boca. Le pasó la lengua por su cabeza y el tronco limpiando toda la verga hasta dejarla bien limpita. Luego le preguntó dónde tenía otro pijamas y sacándole el que llevaba puesto se lo cambió por uno limpio no sin antes darle un nuevo beso a semejante garrote. Después le dio un beso en la boca a Sine quién pretendió tomarla con sus brazos pero ésta no quiso y se retiró rumbo a casa. Sine le agradeció y le prometió que ello no iba a salir jamás de su boca, que sellaría sus labios, que se quedara tranquila.

Luego de unos minutos aparecí en escena y le dije que era un hijo de puta pero que me había ganado y tal cual lo pactado no díría nada ni a mi prima ni a mi mujer.

Mientras iba rumbo a casa me preguntaba una y mil veces si esa sería la primera vez que Josefina me engañaba o si era normal que hiciera cosas por el estilo sin yo saberlo. Era la gran duda que de ahora en más me perseguiría.Lo malo de todo esto fue que me había excitado viéndola chuparle la pija a otro hombre y no se cuanto pasará hasta que le diga que la ví porque por ahí podemos iniciar una nueva vida de ahora en más haciendo intervenir un tercero o, por qué no, una tercera en la pareja.

Fuente: CuentoRelatos

Interested in knowing more about swinging and the swingers lifestyle? Find out about the different types of couple swinging and everything else that you should know about how to start swinging  with your partner.

How to start swinging

Do couples actually swing in real life? Why do couples swing in the first place?

As complex as our anatomical set up and mind, our nature, characteristics, lifestyle and social behaviors are unique phenomena too.

We have an insatiable appetite for at least one thing in life, be it food or intimacy, as examples.

Leaving food on the table, we stray into a familiar territory to take a dig on an act of physical intimacy. Intimacy is a term stretched to every direction and now it’s slanting towards swingers and couples that want to start swinging.

Swinging is a non-monogamous activity of physical intimacy treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple. It has a recreational perspective. Swingers indulge in intimate acts with someone other than one’s spouse/primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.

Swingers have been thriving since the beginning of recorded time. In the era of flower power, swinging was a very “in-thing” and among the most popular “culture”. It has had different social standings through time, of course! The phenomenon of swinging may be seen as part of the revolution of recent decades.

Swinging is like a sport for people who believe physical attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple.

Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in carnal activities with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. The most common method is an adult male and female couple, meeting other pairs for lovemaking and physical intimacy, and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.

How to start swinging – The different types of swinging couples

During these events, swingers acknowledge lovemaking as a game and participants as team-mates. There are few ground rules, but none etched in stone. The prominent carnal activities, but definitely not limited to, are several to mention, but a few of the most popular ones include:

Exhibitionism

It is the form of pleasure which involves making out with a partner while being watched by at least one other person.

Voyeurism

Watching others doing or performing the big bang. It is acceptable in the group event, but not in private areas.

Soft Swap

It involves kissing and stroking and the basics in blowing a guy or tickling a girl down south, with multiple partners. This can be indulged during the threesome, group romp, or while swapping partners.

Peak Swap

This is to have penetrative physical sex with someone other than one’s partner. The idea is almost the definition of swinging, but not necessarily the same.

Group Game

This term signifies the activities involving multiple players in the same lay-out. It usually defines a group of four or more people interacting physically. The most common is two couples, although it can be any gender of four or more people.

Ménage a Trios

Also known as threesomes, this is one of the most common methods of starting in the swinging lifestyle for beginners. A lot of couples will carry on with threesomes long after they become an integral part in swinging. In this, all three involved people interact with each other in bed.

Extreme Measures

These include things such as spanking, bondage, and water sports. The majority of these are very uncommon at most swingers’ parties unless the hosts have chosen a theme for the night, in which case you will be notified well before the night of the party.

Bi-Factor

People of the same gender interacting with each other sexually. This is much more common between women than men, but it doesn’t mean every woman will indulge in it. Bisexuality between men is extremely rare in the swinging community, and is usually frowned upon if not organized prior, and is usually preferred in a separate area.

Thanks for reading sexies!

Source: LovePanky